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Monday, May 28, 2007

I Loathe people who are possesive or manipulative.
Hate is a strong word.
However,
Loathe
: to dislike greatly and often with disgust or intolerance : detest

Is like every human have their rights for doing any legal thing in life.
Be it from decisions, choices, or options, making in life.
No one should abuse their rights and try to control someone else's life.
Mind you, no one should abuse their rights, which is totally not like having the authorities to do so.
Having the authorities is about having the right to do something with absolute positive reason to do or say something so, to a certain extent.
And everyone have a choice to stop anyone from ripping their rights gradually, sometimes even to everything, off.
It can be suffocating and getting the sickly-feeling and definitely feeling unjustified. No? Ha.

People who gets to manipulate another person's life tend to get that ecstatic feeling every once in awhile everytime the person thinks about how the poor victim gets controlled under him/her and tend to boost their, self-esteem? More like cockiness. They yearn.
Cocky
: overly self-assertive or self-confident

Oh well, such people lack what they do in need and hence to find other alternatives to try to get it, which can leads to over-doing it. This proves their insecurity they have inside them feeling with much uncertainties.
They wanna feel like how great people get power-ful with influential power like famous people who have fans or subordinates under them who idolise or admire them and are willing to go the extra mile, just to even meet the person, like perhaps celebs? or even whatever, rich? people. Perhaps.
But the fact these people don't know is that why they are doing so actually prove that they are power-less and they are desperate to gain power in life.
They probably feel they are nobodies, or failures in life.

So victims who are being manipulated, you know they are not as much power they have the rights to rule over your life and not as mighty as you think.
So sometimes you gotta fight for your right.
Not literally, altough actions speak louder than words.
Oh well having the start to talk is an action, like talking?
What they mean by words, are just saying it to someone else, and not making any difference in the problems you're facing.

Through words which express your thoughts and feelings come actions which will make a difference in your life, for the better, like freedom.
Sometimes arguments are inevitable as different people have different thoughts and opinions.
Arguments are sometimes started off when both parties do not see any wrong in their thoughts/opinions and refuse to listen or change their stand.
Like having that theory of the glass half-full or half-empty tells different people with different opinions, undeniable.
So probably standing up for your rights, which is def. not an unwise decision, can lead to arguments, due to different feelings and thoughts.
People with insecurities may or may not feel so, hence, having different actions with different outcomes, like some who will try hard to hide their insecurities but fail or some who will try hard to hide and succeed, because the victim did not realize or figure why he/she fails in handling the situation, which is the right thing to do.

Even friends, like best friends relationships do occur.
Like "He/She is My Best friend." or "You are My best friend." or "You are His/Her best friend. You should know whatever I'm asking you about him/her."
Come on, Best friends know how each other feels or going through best, yes.
But, they won't know everything. Like where is the person, etc.
There gotta be some personal space, which in turns lead to privacy and having to lose one's privacy, in other words, losing that Rights.
In relationships, is common.
Why is that so?

It starts off from Privacy.
When having another person to get close to you in life and getting into your life, with the increased amount of quality time spent together is where one party gets to initiate/organise/talk more to another party, when he/she sometimes may feel unprepared or not used to getting things getting far too fast.
This applies to every human-relational-ships from people to getting along with each other.

So much so for a post today, hope this enlightens some of you readers out there. =)

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